Monday, 7 September 2009

Feeling very sad

Hi everyone
Just thoguht i would let my bloggy friends know why my cards have dropped a lot lately. I am in the middle of seperating from my husband, although i am still living with him till a house gets sorted within hopefully the next few weeks. This is a very difficult time for myslf and family especially our 3 beautiful childen, we have tried our best to save our 12 year marraige and total relationship of 18 years but it can be no more i am afraid to say. I am now gong to be a lone parent with 3 children and have therefore decided to study 2 A levels in the hope i can better my future for the sake of our children and myself. I am an emotional reck at the moment and find it hard as we still live in the same house and just don't know how i am going to build my life again, i met him when i was just 15 years old and the world has changed so much i am so scared but need to be strong for the children, i will try to focus on my card making when i have moved and settled and will occasionally blog hop until i have my full strength back. I hope you understand and don't all dissapear and leave me i will be blogging but maybe not as much.
big hugs Debra


  1. Dear Debra, I know it is very difficult moment for you and your children, but I am sure you are strong enough and will manage with it. You are young, beautiful and talented woman and I believe everything will be all right with you and your children. You should not entirely abandon your hobby. Your cards are really lovely and cardmaking will give you small piece of happiness and relax in your live.
    Big hug.

  2. Hi Debra, It may seem like things can't get any better at the moment but believe me they do. I was 21 with 3 children and 8 months pregnant with my 4th when I stood in court for my divorce, so I know how you feel I've been there. Things can only get better!!! We're here for you too if you ever want to just have a good ole moan!

  3. oh Debra, I'm so so sorry!
    Sending {{{{Hugs}}}}}your way!!!
    I'll be thinking of you and praying for you
    and your lovely children! Take care hun!!!
    blessings, Maria

  4. Hi Debra, I'm so sorry to hear your going through a terrible time, believe me hun, it will get better! I split up with my husband when my my children were 4 and 6 and I know how difficult it is starting over again but you will do it! and you will be fine! I have now been with my current partner for 16 years and had another 3 children, there is life after divorce and although you can't see the sun for the clouds at the minute, its still there and the clouds will eventually pass. Thinking of you. Donna x

  5. Hi Debra. Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear this. I am really upset for you, hunny. If you ever want to talk about anything, please, please email me: semsee at ymail dot com. Sending you and your little ones huge cyber hugs... Sem xxxxxx

  6. My sister split from her partner of 12 years last year, and she was weak and depressed. She didn't know what to do as he pulled all her strings and ruled her and the kids. But you know what my old sister has reappeared and she is a much happier person and the kids behaviour has improved too. So sometimes although it's hard there is some good that might come from it even though it dosen't seem like it at the moment. It takes time and patience and support. Thinking of you and be strong.
    Tracy x

  7. Oh hun - i am so sorry to hear this. Are you ok? It must be so hard on you. I dont know what to say as i have never been married - but i am a single mummy. Im not going to lie its hard work, but my God is it rewarding. Your children will help get you thrugh this tim because their love is unconditional and forever.
    Good on you going back to school, i did it and its bloody hard work but fabulous for your future. I think you are such a fantastic mother putting their needs before your own at this time.
    If you need anything holla.
    Can i have your address so i can send you a little RAK
    love tasha xx